“She’s mine,” Megan said, about her big sister.
Her words warmed my heart, and I don’t know why it surprised me.
We were at church, and Megan was sitting next to me on a bench, outside in the sunshine. Another girl came and sat down next to Megan, and asked how old she was.
“I’m five.” Megan said.
“I’m nine!” said the girl. (Guys. I’m horrible with names as it is, and our church has 100 kids. NOT exaggerating!)
“Oh! Kirstyn’s nine too!”
“I think I’ve seen Kirstyn…”
“I know. She’s mine.”
Megan spoke with a smile, and what seemed to me like pride.
My heart flipped.
I heard love, and bff inklings, and one of the reasons I have so many kids! I loved it — loved growing up with five siblings, and I wanted the same childhood pals for my kids. I always knew I’d have at least 6 kids, just like my mom. (I joke now that I’m having a midlife crisis, having met my goals to be a SAHM to 6 kids so early on in life!)
Of course my childhood also had battles. I won’t say which firstborn daughter (*cough* *cough*) was bossy and possessive and started stupid territorial wars. I also butted heads with my parents — who would’ve thunk? But I always, always knew I belonged. I knew deep down that if for some reason I got pregnant out of wedlock, my dad wouldn’t kick me out, and my family would help me raise the baby. (Yes. As a teenager, I did think through this hypothetical scenario.)
“Family is where your story begins,” you know? Mine was a good story. IS a good story! My sisters and I are still best friends.
When I hear about my sisters’ (or my brothers) newest parenting notch-in-the-belt, job, sports achievement, awesome dish, or really just anything they did, I’m like, “I know. They’re mine.”
I love that this imperfect, fierce love is just a darkly colored image of what our Father says of us:
“She’s Mine. I know her, that girl. I made her and I see her and I will never, ever leave her or forsake her.”
I belong. I have what every heart craves! Acceptance. Love. Loyalty.
Megan’s words reminded me. They encouraged this often-weary mama heart that worries if the kids will be OK; and they reminded me that not only will my children belong to each other for life, they will belong to God for eternity.